I don't understand why people don't live each moment of their lives?
...they are never happy, they always crave for something and after getting their or getting that, they are not satisfied.
Life is that tunnel through which no one has escaped alive, if that's the case why we are unhappy?
One can argue if you are satisfied you will become stagnant, will not grow, yes desire and growth go hand in hand and i have no issues with that but after reaching their are we satisfied?
A gymnast pushes hard to get the Gold, once he gets their he feels he is unhappy because someone else has a better record and i should beat it, he himself invites dissatisfaction from life as he is living dogma(life on others expectations).
Don't get me wrong here i am not advocating that fact that one should not push for the gold the next time, i am saying why have attachment , if you fail in the process, fear of failure comes from attachment. You must learn to let go, we cant press the sand to hard in our palms, we know its gonna slip.
I believe in living in each moments , as their are no ordinary moments, their is always something going on, live in that moment, past is history don't it be a baggage or a advantage for you, its just past, don't think of future as your process of thinking about it wont change it. Just live in present and join each dot (moment);which on integrating(Engineer inside me cant Die) will give you the future.